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Why You Procrastinate — and Why Telling Yourself to Just Do It Never Works
You know what you need to do. You've known for days, weeks, or even months. The task sits on your list, unmoved. You think about it constantly, which somehow makes it harder to start, not easier. You're not lazy. If you were lazy, you wouldn't be thinking about it this much. Procrastination, in the people who struggle with it most, has almost nothing to do with laziness or poor time management. It is a response to something uncomfortable. Until that something is addressed, no
Oct 285 min read


When Perfectionism Is Actually Anxiety in Disguise
You've always been this way. Thorough. Detail-oriented. The person who catches what everyone else misses, who would rather redo something than submit work that's less than excellent. These qualities have served you well — academically, professionally, in the eyes of people who rely on you. So when someone suggests your perfectionism might be a problem, the reaction is usually resistance: This is just who I am. Without it, I'd be mediocre. Here's the question worth sitting wit
Aug 34 min read


You're Probably Wrong About Mindfulness — And That's Why It Hasn't Worked
Mindfulness has a marketing problem. Somewhere between the clinical research and the wellness industry, it got repackaged into something that sounds nothing like what it actually is — and everything like something a certain kind of person would roll their eyes at. Candles. Apps. The instruction to "just breathe." The implication that if you're still anxious, you're not doing it right. If that version of mindfulness hasn't worked for you, that's not evidence that you can't do
Jun 226 min read


Building a Balanced Daily Routine for Mental Health: A Psychologist's Guide
How to create sustainable habits that support emotional wellness and reduce anxiety, stress, and burnout In our fast-paced world, mental...
Jul 11, 20253 min read
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